QotD: SlutWalk is not sexual liberation

Gail Dines and Wendy J Murphy on ‘SlutWalks’:

The organisers claim that celebrating the word “slut”, and promoting sluttishness in general, will help women achieve full autonomy over their sexuality. But the focus on “reclaiming” the word slut fails to address the real issue. The term slut is so deeply rooted in the patriarchal “madonna/whore” view of women’s sexuality that it is beyond redemption. The word is so saturated with the ideology that female sexual energy deserves punishment that trying to change its meaning is a waste of precious feminist resources.

Advocates would be better off exposing the myriad ways in which the law and the culture enable myths about all types of women – sexually active or “chaste” alike. These myths facilitate sexual violence by undermining women’s credibility when they report sex crimes. Whether we blame victims by calling them “sluts” (who thus asked to be raped), or by calling them “frigid” (who thus secretly want to be overpowered), the problem is that we’re blaming them for their own victimisation no matter what they do. Encouraging women to be even more “sluttish” will not change this ugly reality.

As teachers who travel around the country speaking about sexual violence, pornography and feminism, we hear stories from women students who feel intense pressure to be sexually available “on demand”. These students have grown up in a culture in which hypersexualized images of young women are commonplace and where hardcore porn is the major form of sex education for young men. They have been told over and over that in order to be valued in such a culture, they must look and act like sluts, while not being labeled slut because the label has dire consequences including being blamed for rape, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and self-mutilation.

Women need to find ways to create their own authentic sexuality, outside of male-defined terms like slut. The recent TubeCrush phenomenon, where young women take pictures of men they find attractive on the London tube and post them to a website, illustrates how easily women copy dominant societal norms of sexual objectification rather than exploring something new and creative. And it’s telling that while these pictures are themselves innocent and largely free of sexual innuendo, one can only imagine the sexually aggressive language that would accompany a site dedicated to secret photos of women.

See also IBtP’s Toronto activists take back the slut:

In an attempt to disenvenom the word ’slut’, SlutWalkers can slut it up for their SlutWalk, wearing, as Toronto Sun columnist Heather Mallick says, “whatever it is that people wear as they go about their lives not asking to be raped,” but once the march is over, ‘Hey, I’m a slut!’ is unlikely to have the desired consciousness-raising effect. The sex class will still exist.

This notion of re-appropriating ’slut’ suggests that women, possibly in some happier time, had previously a-ppropriated it for our own benefit. But in no wise was there ever a culture in which women’s solidarity compelled us to define ourselves by the number of men we’ve pronged and how closely we conformed to pornographic dress codes when we did it. When you’re standing up against your own oppression as a member of the sex class, it is problematic and of questionable revolutionary efficacy to stamp yourself and your comrades-in-arms with the mark of the oppressor.

In other words, calling yourself a slut, in the middle of a flippin’ patriarchy, can only have the effect, as Germaine Greer [in The Whole Woman] noted, of reinforcing men’s sense of their own superiority.

2 responses

  1. ‘The Master’s Tools will never dismantle the Master’s House’ said radical feminist Audre Lorde many years ago and her words are just as valid now.

    Slut is a misogynistic sexually insulting term created by men to maintain the lie that women are either whores or sluts. In other words we are just ‘sex’ and nothing else. That is why whenever men commit sexual violence against women immediately there is a hysterical cry of ‘look at the slut’s behaviour she, not the man, is responsible’.

    Women have never ever been sluts but there are innumerable males whose sexual behaviour can be aptly defined as ‘sluttish/whorish.’

    Calling women sluts means men are supposedly right rather than challenging men and the male supremacist system which refuses to accept women are human just like men. We are not men’s dehumanised sexual service stations.

  2. Yes i agree. When i first heard about this slutwalk phenomenon i immediately thought that although the intentions of the participants may be admirable enough, it was fraught with the sorts of issues you have discussed. It’s really not appropriate to facilitate the subsistence of such terms, or to tolerate any woman being labelled a slut at all, even if it is intended to be in taking possession of the term. It’s all a bit juvenile.

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