BDSM is rape culture

I was 15 years old when I was raped by my boyfriend. He had hit me and forced me to do other things with him before that, but I didn’t leave him. I didn’t think he was capable of going that far to get what he wanted. I only told one person, and she told me that it wasn’t rape at all. She said this because I didn’t say no to him. He slapped me across the face and told me not to say a word unless he told me to, and that’s what I did. Because I didn’t say “no” I’m told it wasn’t rape; funny, because I wasn’t given a choice.

http://fuckingrapeculture.tumblr.com/post/66533808664/i-was-15-years-old-when-i-was-raped-by-my

My Master does that to me all the time. I’m sorry you were so young and feel victimized by it. I wish you hadn’t been taught otherwise, but when you become a partner, it is your duty to please him, and most men enjoy dominating their women. Just think of it as something sexy next time. Let him choke you a little. Once you realize your pleasing him, you should be happy. I didn’t like it at first, now I love it and will beg for it!

http://berryokt.tumblr.com/post/66541354275/fucking-rape-culture-i-was-15-years-old-when-i-was

The number one thing I had to learn was that my time is no longer my time. It, like myself and everything I used to own now belongs to my Master. I love and trust him with all my heart, he is my husband and every part of me belongs to him. You would have to give up the idea that anything you believe doesn’t mean jack shit unless your Master approves. That can be hardest. I was brought up in a very traditional household. The men ruled, the women obeyed, so this is very natural for me. I have had a few different Masters while being trained. I was literally sold to men even as a child by my father and his brother. I understand that is not typical. I’ve had over a decade of practice being a man’s slave now. My advice to you would be to ease into everything, as it may overwhelm you at first if you start 24/7 totally submitting. If your owner gives you any say, you might be able to tell him you don’t want to be beaten, whipped, raped etc. I don’t have those rules. My Master has full free reign over me, and a lot consider that abusive. I don’t. So I would recommend you talk to others, both Doms and slaves. Remember, he will own you outside of the bedroom, from simply cleaning his house and cooking his food to being told to kneel and be chained in public. I am not allowed to vote, drive, work, go to school, touch money, go outside alone, I’m not allowed in most places of business or to talk to anyone without express permission. He makes an exception online because he trusts me and has access to anything I post. Most people are not this strict or extreme I’ve been told but it is normal to me. Are you prepared to drop your pants in front of strangers at his command? Many men are possessive, but when Master tells me to get fucked by another man, I have to obey immediately. Even if I am sick, scared or don’t feel like something for any reason, I must still do it. I live for him and want to please him more than anything else in my life. Making him happy and bringing him pride and honor as a man in my only goal. It fulfills me, and I hope it will be the same for you!

http://berryokt.tumblr.com/post/66550438375/how-would-one-go-about-having-a-relationship-similar-to

Women are Slaves

27 y/o female anti-feminist. I live in a house with my Master, another two Masters and four other slave girls. We are Gorean. I believe in White Pride, keeping our race pure and I am Finnish, live in Seattle.

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7 responses

  1. I’ve seen berryokt around on tumblr and have a hard time believing it’s not an elaborate and particularly horrible troll blog- she just seems too awful to be real- but maybe I’m too optimistic. It’s certainly not like you can’t find similar sentiments from kinksters elsewhere on the internet, if in a slightly less concentrated form.

    The fact that she’s a white supremacist does fit alarmingly well with the overall BDSM ethos though. The racialised misogyny the kink scene directs at women of colour, as both exotic toys and even lesser, more degradable beings than white women, is truly disgusting.

  2. Even if it’s not really by a woman living like this, it is by a man or woman who gets off on the ideas enough to go to the effort to write a fake blog – the writer believes this stuff.

  3. I have seen this blog before, too. I have tried to summon the strength to work through it in order to find out if this is genuine or troll, but there is only a certain amount of stupidity I can tolerate. Goreans are a handful.

    However, I wonder – should this be genuine – if there isn’t the need for legal action/police involvement. One recurring theme in her (her?) writings is how she didn’t use to enjoy it and now does. This of course may be a trollish narrative of ″slave training″, but it makes me think about battered wife syndrome as well.

    Not that I seriously believe that the police would be interested.

  4. I’m not sure how practically possible that would be, like you said I doubt the police would take an interest.

  5. Is all what I’ve just read is real? It’s not fake? How can on earth exists this kind of thing? Slave? Master? Oh common this is not in the Medieval and all of these actions are ILLEGAL, PATHOLOGICAL, INHUMAN and CRUEL. All people take part in bdsm are surely have mental illness and should be reeducated to make their thoughts back to normal. How can pain be ease? How can treating others mercilessly make you happy? These ideas are so dangerous for anyone to has. Those “slaves” should be saved and please, stop the sickening thinking that satisfying the ones you call master is your only goal in life. People are more noble than animal and you deserve respect just like everyone to have much greater goals in life than that. If you say your dream is to make your “master” happy then it just because you have been brainwashed by receiving a wrong education from your parents. Practicing being man’ slave? Where the hell on earth is that place? This is completely unequal, also unacceptable action in this today world.

  6. This is not representative of the actual BDSM community at all. If this woman actually exists, and she turned up at a BDSM convention or gathering spouting pro-rape white supremacist bullshit, it would not go well for her.

    This is not a valid argument against BDSM–this is a straw man. Within any school of thought there are looney tunes. Comparing this to the actual BDSM community is like comparing an average religious person to a terrorist.

  7. Imagine Hamish McDonald, a Scotsman, sitting down with his Glasgow Morning Herald and seeing an article about how the “Brighton [(England)] Sex Maniac Strikes Again”. Hamish is shocked and declares that “No Scotsman would do such a thing”. The next day he sits down to read his Glasgow Morning Herald again; and, this time, finds an article about an Aberdeen [(Scotland)] man whose brutal actions make the Brighton sex maniac seem almost gentlemanly. This fact shows that Hamish was wrong in his opinion but is he going to admit this? Not likely. This time he says, “No true Scotsman would do such a thing”.

    Antony Flew, from the Wikipedia definition of the ‘No True Scotsman’ informal fallacy

    I notice that you only went for the softer targets, don’t you have anything thing to say about this post, or this one?

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