Why celebrate men who like to “give up power” in the bedroom when they go to a dominatrix? I am all for men giving up power, but give it up in politics, in corporations, in the legal system, in the banks, in the whole wide world.
Who gives a shit if they give up power for an hour or so to some woman with a whip (who has no real power in the world) when they then put on their clothes and go right back to their power positions? Their power position may be fluid in the bedroom, but women’s powerlessness is cemented in every institution. No fluidity for us!