QotD: “My feminism is not a refuge for men who had patriarchy backfire on them”
My feminism is not a refuge for men who had patriarchy backfire on them.
Blackvulva (original post not found)
It is true, and very much to the point, that women are objects, commodities, some deemed more expensive than others - but it is only by asserting one’s humanness every time, in all situations, that one becomes someone as opposed to something. That, after all, is the core of our struggle.
Andrea Dworkin, Woman Hating
Andrea Dworkin, Woman Hating
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