This is one of today’s search engine terms:
my dom beats me when i mess up without aftercare
For anyone visiting this blog in this type of situation, you are being abused. It doesn’t matter what ‘contract’ you signed, what you agreed to verbally, how nice your abuser is other times, what kind of ‘pillar’ of the BDSM ‘community’ your abuser is, this is a dangerous situation, and you should leave, not just your abuser, but the BDSM ‘scene’ altogether.
You deserve love and affection and care without having to be tortured first, you deserve respect without having to agree to total submission and obedience first. You can take responsibility for your own life and your own decisions, you don’t need a ‘dom’ to do this for you.
If you feel like you can’t leave, because of financial reasons, because you have become isolated from family and community outside of BDSM, because you are afraid of what your abuser might do, there are resources out there available to help you escape.
what is the name of that thing that people put their dicks in in porn videos
It’s shocking, not only that there exists a person who doesn’t know the word ‘vagina’ (it’s not that they didn’t know the spelling, they didn’t have a clue that the word exists in the first place), but also that the person who wanted to know the word ‘vagina’ (or ‘anus’, or ‘mouth’ for that matter, but most likely ‘vagina’), could only think of a vagina as something that exists in porn, for ‘people’ (men are the default ‘people’) to put their dicks in. For whoever this is, women, and sex, does not exist outside of porn.